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We all carry baggage of some sort. Hurts from failed marriages, failed relationships, failed conversations. Choices we’ve made that we wish could be reversed. Things we’ve said that cannot be withdrawn. Words we wished we said before it was too late. Regrets, missed opportunities, unpleasant moments, sorrows, losses, pain, guilt, grief. Negative emotions that we carry with us and let define who we are.
We forget all the positives that we are:
…and the list goes on.
We get stuck on the one thing that makes us feel less than. And that is one heavy suitcase to lug around – a steamer trunk of doom.
Words have power. They have the power to hurt and the power to heal. They have the power to uplift, motivate, shape and destroy. But is it the words themselves or is it the tone they are presented in?
We’ve all learned that email messages can be misconstrued. The intended tone of the writer is lost on the reader.
Or, is it our perception of ourselves that define how we interpret the words?
How did we achieve our self-perception? From the words we heard as children or by the non-verbal messages such as the look, the touch or the smile of our parents? One could argue equally on both counts. Regardless, words have power.
I’m a quote person – not a person likely to be quoted, although that would be an honour I hope to one day have bestowed – but a person who collects quotes. Not just any quote that a particular famous person said or quotes about a specific topic but quotes that I hear or read and say “Oooo, that’s good”. Quotes that make me see myself in a different light, a different angle. Quotes that empower and uplift.
I recently came across a young poet/artist named Shane Koyczan and his YouTube video entitled “We Are More” (below) in which he describes what it is to be Canadian. His poetry, voice, imagery and delivery are beautiful and uplifting. His words are powerful and positive.
Being a Canadian myself, I may be a bit biased with regards to his subject matter but I not only came away with a revived feeling of national patriotism, I came away with a quote that made me pause and reflect:
“Don’t let your luggage define your travels.” Shane Koyczan
It’s time to unlock that steamer trunk. Blow off the cobwebs, flip up the latches, lift the lid to let in some light and see what’s inside. Take each item out and look at its value.
Discard your preconceived notions about yourself and view yourself through the eyes of your children, your spouse, your friends and colleagues.
Remove all the heavy stuff – the disappointments and regrets.
Throw away the negativity, especially the demeaning words that you repeat to yourself – regardless of who said them first.
The journey is yours to make. Pack carefully, take only what you need, dress in layers.
The lighter you pack, the further you can travel.
Link to Shane Koyczan’s video “We Are More”
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I am a quote person – more on that soon. In my quest to release Pollyanna, I find that the words of others can inspire deeper thought and internal reflection. During the course of this blog, I will share quotes that I have come across that make me go hmmm… Perhaps they will do the same for you.
And so we begin…
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For years I’ve been wrestling Pollyanna – struggling to stay positive in a world of negativity, trying to shield my children and myself from a bombardment of negative news and media images only to feel like it was a loosing battle – one against the masses – but that’s life. What can you do? Well, this…
I, for one, am going to turn negatives into positives, stop wrestling with my inner Pollyanna and let her shine and begin to refocus on the good in life.
As a child, like most I suppose, I was overwhelmingly positive – the quintessential 
Pollyanna, always looking on the bright side of life. If I fell and scraped my knee (which I did with remarkable frequency), I thought, “Well, it could have been worse, I could have scraped my nose too.”
But as I matured and the many things I hoped would happen, didn’t; the many things I imagined would happen, didn’t; the many things I expected to happen, didn’t; my Pollyanna braids unfurled and disappointment transformed them into a tight pony-tail of conformity or neatly constructed bun a-top my head while a that’s-life-what-did-you-expect attitude took shape.
As much as I have tried to suppress it, a Pollyanna-ness still flickers inside me, the warm embers of which help me to maintain an overall positive attitude, believing that things happen for a reason and there is a lesson to be learned from it all but from the vantage point of age (or what some might argue as ‘wisdom’), I wonder why I’ve accepted that adage.
Sure things happen but the reason might be because of my attitude toward it so just because it happened, do I need to accept it?
By changing my outlook, perhaps disappointment could turn into gratitude.
So I haven’t travelled to Italy, nor do I have the money to do so in the near future. It doesn’t mean that I won’t get there at some point. Instead I should be grateful that I can afford to put a roof over my head and can make spaghetti whenever I want. Italy is something I have to look forward to, and what is life without dreams?
Am I the only one out there yearning for the bright-side in life?
According to one recent listing of the top ten tourist attractions in the world, Disney theme parks took two of the top spots with a third at number eleven. Are we so discontented with reality that a combined 32,952,000 of us annually spend our hard-earned tax dollars to live a week in a fantasy world rather than in the world we created?
Perhaps it’s time to change our perspective.
Join in my observations as I share my findings — things I see around me to celebrate, the good in humanity, the quirky, things that make me smile or things that I’m pondering in my quest for what’s good out there — and send me some of your own ‘brighter-side of life’ observances for as that originator of all things zen said:
“The mind is everything. What you think you become.” Buddha
Let’s focus on the good in the world. Fasten your pig-tails Buddha, this is going to be fun!
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I’m spreading the positive, people. What you put out, you get back. Please keep all comments to a positive tone. Negative comments will not be posted.
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